Services

Marriage

Preparation for the Holy Mystery of Marriage begins with a conversation with the parish priest.

What to bring

  • The bride and groom must be baptized Orthodox Christians; exceptional cases require written episcopal dispensation
  • Orthodox sponsors married in the Orthodox Church
  • Two large white candles and the wedding rings
  • A small bottle of red wine and, if desired, a stemmed glass
  • Ladyfinger biscuits, if this is part of the family tradition
  • A white ribbon approximately 2 inches wide and 7 feet long

Information the couple should provide

  • Full names of the bride, groom, and sponsors
  • The couple’s address and telephone numbers
  • Parish membership information
  • Information about any previous marriage, divorce, or widowhood

When weddings are not celebrated

  • During fasting seasons and fast days
  • On the eve and day of the twelve Great Feasts
  • During Cheesefare Week and Bright Week
  • From the Nativity of the Lord through Theophany (December 25–January 6)

Scheduling and contribution

Contact the priest before confirming the wedding date. He will guide the couple through the pastoral and canonical preparation.

The current suggested contribution for Marriage is $400. Members of at least six months receive services without charge. No one will be refused for financial reasons.